Hmmm.... It's hard to write about something so wonderful when I'm not in the mood... But I've found that when I feel like "blah", and I write about something wonderful, I usually am feeling closer to wonderful when I'm done... So, here goes.
First off, I'm at work, so I don't have any pictures, but I'll update it when I get home.
My in-laws came into town this Christmas, and to be completely honest, it was a good experience. It was a good experience on multiple levels. Sheesh... I
really wasn't anticipating writing all this, but - such is journaling...
Yes, it was good in that I realize that forgiveness really is for everyone -
at any time. My mother-in-law and I have had our bouts, and quite honestly, I've never had problems with people I couldn't either solve, or move away from. So, this is a first for me.
Being forced to honestly forgive had always seemed like an oxymoron to me. However, I guess it really doesn't depend wholly upon the nature of the person, it has to do with intent and sincerity.
I had resigned myself to never forgive her, but rather just keep her out of my life. Silly me. How I didn't see the ridiculousness of that, I'll never know.
So, when Sarah asked me if her family could come up for Christmas, I laughed out loud. Honest to goodness, I did. But, Sarah persisted, and as time went on, I knew I had three choices:
- Invite them, and cover up my emotions, feelings, and other yuckiness I was holding inside, and simultaneously, be completely inable to have any semblance of a good Christmas.
- Don't invite them, and simultaneously become a grinch in my own home, and watch the opportunity for a "Merry" Christmas in 2008 pass us by.
- Invite them, and work out sincere forgiveness so I really could have a good Christmas.
So, needless to say, when faced with the choices, there really was only one.
So, without going into the details, through a lot of effort, prayer, and soul searching, I was able to internally forgive her and then the rest was cake.
They came, and we had a good time! Nothing but good conversation, good movies, good food, good friends, and good family! Hehe.... (On Christmas day, we had a dinner as the host of 14 people. My family, Eric Hansen's family, Kim, Henry, and Julia, and Chloe's family. I thought that would be awkward at best, but it turned out to be
absolutely wonderful!!!)
Anyway... I played a lot of Guitar Hero with everyone (and alone), and finally Christmas came.
Christmas morning was brought to me at precisely 9:01AM this year. I heard the pitter patter of little feet running as fast as they could to my room, along with the chime, "
Santa ate the cookies!! He really ate the cookies! Santa ate the cookies!" Luci was beside herself with disbelief. She repeated the phrase at least 10 times before I had the sense to grab the camera and get recording.
Opening presents was a great event. You'll see all that when I get the video done. Sarah's big gift was the best. She was.... uhhh happy. *wink*
Then the rest of the day was relaxing, and guitar hero until dinner time.
We had
turkey this Christmas, and the food was exceptional. As previously stated, we had a lot of people over for dinner, but it all worked out in the end, and I ate waaaaay too much. The food was absolutely scrumptious - and there was plenty, too.
And that was about it. Wow.... I wrote much more than I thought I would. Ah what the hey. This is my blog, and I'll write whatever I want.
This year's Christmas was fantastic.